As I sipped my morning coffee, I found myself pondering a question that has taunted many of us: when is it time to let go? In a world where we attach oneself to love like a lifeline, the act of letting go can feel like a deception to our hearts. But what if I told you that letting go might just be the most liberating act of self-love we can embrace?

 

In the grand tapestry of relationships, each thread weaves a story, a memory, a lesson. Yet, not all threads are meant to last. Sometimes, we hold onto a relationship long after it has served its purpose, like that pair of heels we swore we’d wear again but still collect dust in the back of our wardrobes. It’s easy to romanticise the past, to replay the best moments in our minds, but isn’t it time we acknowledged the reasons we shifted apart? 

 

Letting go doesn’t mean we eliminate the memories or the love we once felt. Instead, it’s about recognising that our hearts are not meant to be prisons for what was, but rather open spaces for what could be. So, the next time you find yourself clinging to a decaying connection, ask yourself: is this love still nurturing my soul, or is it just a behaviour that’s become too familiar? 

 

In the end, the art of letting go is not just about saying goodbye; it’s about making space for new beginnings. After all, life is too short to hold onto what no longer serves us. Letting go often opens up new possibilities and opportunities. It’s like shedding an old skin to make way for new growth. When we embrace change, we invite new adventures and relationships into our lives, which can be incredibly refreshing..

 

Think about how every ending can lead to a new beginning. Whether it’s moving on from a job, a relationship, or even just a phase in life, there’s beauty in change. Each movement forward can bring sudden joys and opportunities that we might not have imagined.

 

I couldn’t help but wonder,

what kind of new adventures are we thinking about?

 

 

Lodges Blog – nadia f